Self Sabotage: How - Birds of a Feather

Those of use who self sabotage are usually drawn to other people who self sabotage. We are who we associate with. We surround ourselves with people who are negative and hypercritical. They constantly remind of us of how incompetent and unworthy we are. And they talk to themselves the same way. Surrounding ourselves with people who are going nowhere, and don’t want us to go anywhere either, will make it that much harder to fight our way out of old, destructive behaviors.